December
| 1 | How do I feel about this past work week? |
| 2 | When did I last experience some personal growth? How did that make me feel? |
| 3 | What step of the 5-step decision making process is easiest for us? Hardest? |
| 4 | What specialness of yours gives me the most strength? How does that make me feel? |
| 5 | What part of the day do I usually like best? |
| 6 | In what ways do I personally reflect the values of my parents family? |
| 7 | Do we share from our abundance or from our substance? What decisions have we made about contributions to the church or other charities? |
| 8 | What attitudes of mine do I want to change? |
| 9 | How do I feel when someone is life-giving to me? |
| 10 | In what way can I help confirm our sacrament this/next week week? |
| 11 | God needs our couple love? How do I think we should be using it? |
| 12 | How can I help the me I know get closer to the me I project? |
| 13 | How do I feel about writing to you like this? How do my actions make me feel? |
| 14 | What prevents me from accepting your weaknesses, fears or strong feelings? |
| 15 | Am I willing to make decisions when we can't reach a mutual decision? How do my actions make me feel? |
| 16 | How do I feel when you leave things up to me? |
| 17 | How have I recently gone beyond the norm to achieve harmony in our relationship? |
| 18 | What quality in you am I most dependent on? How does that make me feel? |
| 19 | What struggle has given us the greatest sense of unity? |
| 20 | How am I compensating for unmet needs in our relationship? How do I feel about that? |
| 21 | What decision to love have I made recently? |
| 22 | What is Christmas to me? How does this make me feel? |
| 23 | How do I feel about the effort it takes to prepare for Christmas? |
| 24 | How do I feel when I am under pressure? |
| 25 | How do I feel knowing God loves us all? |
| 26 | How do I feel about the way Christmas went for us this year? |
| 27 | What is the happiest memory I have of this Christmas? |
| 28 | Are the trappings of my life more meaningful than I like to admit? How does this make me feel? |
| 29 | What has been the happiest moment of this year? |
| 30 | What one thing this year do I need to ask your forgiveness for this year? How will I do better about this next year? |
| 31 | What would I like to change in our life next year? |